If it seems like everyone around you (and in your social networks) are moaning about how tough life is, it might also be true for you. However, there are still people who manage to stay positive and happy in their lives. What is it that they are doing that makes it possible for them to enjoy life despite its problems? Here are some ways: • Be Positive Complaining only keeps you focused on the negative aspects of your life. No one has it that bad that there is nothing to be positive about. Remember the good stuff going on and spend time with others who think the same way, so you can cultivate the happiness.